Book of Daily Prayer (96-100)

96. PRAYER ON FRIENDSHIP

God why is it so hard to get close to people to let people get close to me to make friends? Is it because I've been hurt before and am afraid to be vulnerable again? Is it because I think others will take advantage of my openness? Your Son had twelve close friends. One sold Him for thirty pieces of silver. Another denied that he ever knew Him. The rest ran away when He needed them most Jesus even predicted these things    yet He didn't shut Himself off from friendship. Make me willing to take the risk, too. Help me to realize that, ultimately, in opening to another human being we are opening ourselves to You.

97. A PRAYER FOR FAITH

A few things still need to be set straight Lord. A few important relationships like Yours and mine. When I was a child I had faith nothing great, but it was simple and strong. The years may not have brought wisdom but some growth and much perplexity. Doing things my way has left me half pleased but hungry for inner peace. Maybe it wasn't You I was rejecting but dry formulas on a printed page that I didn't really understand. If You're willing to try again so am I    and this time You may find that I'm a little more ready for an open ended involvement that goes by the name of  faith.

98. PRAYER TO COPE WITH ANGER

Lord sometimes I get angry, really mad. And I say or do things that I later regret. Then I apologize for the cutting remark the cruel accusation. But apologies aren't always enough. There may be no way to undo the harm. Help me to accept my temper as a reality. Help me to control it and direct it into constructive channels. Help me to harness my anger so that it will move me to work to relieve the oppression of the poor the needless slaughter around the globe the destruction of earth's beauties. Above all, help me to learn restraint. For a moment's hesitation can mean preventing a lifetime of regret.

99 . PRAYER FOR FORGIVENESS

Father how weak we are is not exactly news to You. Every day in many ways we start out with marvelous intentions and end up trying to get even to get out of responsibility to nurture dishonesty in thought or act Forgive us, Lord. Your Son knew us well and we know not what we do. Even more, let us have some of Your power so that we may forgive one another That's where most of our trouble start And, on a deeper level help us forgive ourselves to believe in Your pardon gained by dying and rising. Forgiveness instead of resentment could get to be a habit and not a bad one at that.

100. PRAYER FOR HONESTY

God it's hard to be honest to know what my real intentions are to admit my true motives. And it's so easy to use "white lies" to get out of sticky situations to tell a half truth to avoid embarrassment or inconvenience. I excuse myself by thinking I'm honest when I'm only being tactless or sarcastic. That doesn't prevent me from assigning to others motives that are less noble. Teach me to face the discomfort of knowing myself and to give others the benefit of the doubt. Make me tireless in seeking to do Your will which in my heart I recognize more that I care to admit. Weakness, slowness and mistakes are part of the human scene. Make me honest enough to treat the inadequacies of other people the way I would want them and You to deal with mine.